In interpersonal communication, giving gifts is a crucial aspect of relationship wisdom

There is no gift in this world that cannot be given away, only people who cannot give away gifts.
Why do many people fail to give gifts effectively? It's because many have misunderstandings about gift-giving, and many don't know how to give gifts properly.
Firstly, it is about the cognitive misunderstandings about gift-giving.
1. Giving gifts is a common practice.
Some individuals mistakenly believe that giving gifts is a mundane and snobbish practice, perceiving it as an act of ingratiating oneself with those in higher positions. This is a misconception.
Once you adopt such a mindset, even if you do give a gift, you will do so awkwardly, and the recipient can sense your awkwardness. Consequently, it becomes difficult to give the gift away.
Everyone must change this mindset.
Actually, reciprocity is a good thing between people. Giving gifts doesn't mean we have to become worldly, but rather to be decent.
Behind gifts lies money. Many people feel that giving gifts is vulgar and embarrassing because they have a sense of innocence towards money.
Money, in fact, is a carrier of energy. It can serve as a means for us to express our emotional energy.
As the ancient saying goes, "The gift may be small, but the sentiment it conveys is weighty." Gifts are the medium of sentiment.
Giving gifts is a way for us to express our emotions, such as admiration, blessings, gratitude, support, respect, worship, and affection towards others.
Second, I hate giving gifts but enjoy receiving them.
Some individuals enjoy receiving gifts but not giving them. This is a classic case of double standards.
People with such an attitude will adopt a condescending posture when giving gifts to others, as if they are bestowing a favor upon the recipient, which will definitely make the recipient feel uncomfortable.
The so-called "reciprocity" implies that gifts should be exchanged, and only then can feelings be reciprocated.
In interpersonal communication, a person who only takes and never gives will be considered stingy by others. People generally dislike interacting with stingy individuals. So, it's important for everyone to remember this.